After so many years of
enduring this abuse, I have come to realize why dealing with monster in-laws is
traumatic and sometimes hopeless especially in African societies.
- Your husband is usually the one you can off load on when someone upsets you but in this case you cant because telling him his mother is a mean spirited person that will go to any length literally places you at persona-non-grata (' an unwelcome person')
- Flowing from 1 above, should you go ahead and really tell him how you feel, that marriage is marred and may even come to an end. The ultimate monster in-law objective.
- All you will hear from your husband is I will handle it, she is my mother I can't throw her away. I am in the middle!! You guys are putting me in the middle!!! You then feel blackmailed and further frustrated.
- You can hardly tell anyone without making your husband look like a wimp and lose his self respect because of the emotional quagmire he is cut up in.
- Call in your parents and siblings, then is an all out war with no future ending. The Ultimate family gatherings nightmares.
It looks like a circle of no
solutions until you snap. Then you look as mad as the monster in-laws. Hahahhahahhahahahahahaha 😅😂😄😄😅😅😂😂😂
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