Big problems in the world!
- Islamic State in a rampage against inhumanity,
- Ebola turning nations upside down.
Yet a mother in-law decides her ultimate goal and life ambition is to aggravate and take away your ability to function amidst serious life issues.
Today my monster in-law decided that part of her campaign to show how I cannot have a say was to enter my farm and cut down bananas that I had already sold. She waited until I left for the city ofcourse. I call that stealing but is up to you guys to decide.
When I called and confronted her, she said I sold it without leaving for her and her right is to consume and eat anything of mine perceived as her son's anytime she feels like.
Is this a control issues or what? I guess the problem will be why did we allow her to reside close enough to the farm?
She did abuse my dead parents and call me a couple of names, ranging from a witch with ultimate plan of what??? Wait I know 'staying married to her son.'
I am so aggravated and as I type am about to explode. Thank you so much for this blog, at least I get to exhale but only God can truly help me stay sane........snapping is so very close. You can only imagine what thoughts have passed through my head already.
The problem is not control. She wants attention. Deny her that and punish her in a different way that will be equal to the cost of the banana plus interest.
ReplyDeleteYes, ignoring her is a good start. The last thing a man wants is his wife and mother constantly at war.
ReplyDeleteSo make sure there are no witnesses when you retaliate
ReplyDeleteLook, I have monster Inlaw issues that are so unimaginable I don't know where to start. All I can say is don't let her succeed in ending your marriage.
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